Here are 3 very important and useful “best sex tips for men” that will help you please any woman beyond belief.
1. Learn to last. Even if you think you can last a long time in bed, you may have a lot of room for improvement.
This is very important because it tends to be the number one complaint of all women who are not sexually satisfied enough. Many men simply cannot last long in bed. And the sad thing is that they do nothing to change that. Lasting long in bed not only leads to better sex for men, it builds a huge amount of confidence which actually translates into picking up women much easier (knowing that you can please them beyond belief eliminates all worries and anxiety issues).
Tip: The way to learn to have sex longer is through exercises and some breathing techniques. There is one muscle you can exercise, commonly known as the “PC muscle,” which actually strengthens your control. Anxiety and excessive mental arousal can be greatly reduced by using slow, controlled breathing techniques during sexual intercourse.
Personal Experiences: Developing foreplay is a great tactic to last longer. If you give a woman enough pleasure before actual sex, then orgasm will be just around the corner and you won’t have to stress about lasting sex. Works on the pleasurable “erotic zones” of the woman’s body. Use her hands and mouth to pleasure yourself first, before you have actual sex.
2. Positions. Give this to the ladies, guys!
Guys can pleasantly ejaculate from almost any position, but women definitely prefer some positions over others, and get much more pleasure from these positions. The standard missionary position is actually very LOW on the totem pole for pleasing women, yet this is what most men will rush into without even thinking about it. Find a position where he knows she experiences great pleasure and make it her main position, but definitely change it to other female-friendly pleasure positions for variety’s sake.
Tip: If you’re not sure of a pleasant position to participate in, then look for the girl in the top position. This is always the favorite of many women. They have more control and can maneuver towards that “sweet spot” where great pleasure will be experienced. An added benefit to guys in this position is that you’ll actually end up lasting a lot longer than other positions. This is due to simple gravity issues. Think about it!
Personal Experiences: Use a pillow for support. Many positions can be “85% pleasurable” but there still seems to be a bit of discomfort that can keep the position from being all it can be. If you use a pillow to support your or your partner’s lower back or neck, it can lock you into the particular position, making it 100% pleasurable. I believe that a support pillow under the lower back when the woman is on top can greatly increase the pleasure for both of you!
3. Thicker penis. Notice I didn’t say “bigger penis”!
This is because it is not the length that matters to women, but actually the most pleasurable performance aspect of the penis is the length. thickness, or the size of “circumference”. This actually provides more pleasure for women during sexual intercourse. It’s the big secret to the ever-controversial question: “Does size matter?” The length doesn’t matter, but the girth definitely does! The good news is that men can improve their girth size by doing exercises, especially jelqing. The basics of this exercise consist of massaging the penis continuously for several series and repetitions. Each massage is actually a slow, controlled movement that begins at the base and ends just before the head. This increases the walls of the penis, creating a much thicker size which will lead to better sex as this is what women find pleasurable.
Additional Tips for Jelqing: The penis must be in a state of partial erection. Generally this refers to an erection of around 60%, not a full erection. Lubrication is also highly recommended. There is “dry jelqing”, but this should be reserved for the more experienced, and even then many advise against using lube. As far as a jelqing program goes, you should set aside 4-5 days a week for jelqing exercises and allow about 8 weeks for results to start showing.