In this article, I’d like to cover a SIMPLE, yet absolutely effective way that most alpha men use to create spark, not to mention ‘attraction’ to the girls they meet.
WIT or HUMOR
During a series of studies and surveys, we asked women what they want in a man and they always categorized HUMOR as one of their top 3.
And you’ll find that most dating and relationship courses cover detailed information on laughter and how powerfully magnetic this trick is that produces an irrevocable attraction to women.
You can call it teasing, or denials, smug and funny lines or even sarcasm, humor is crucial to your dating scene. Not that this trick has a temporary impact, but the humor leaves a lasting impression that goes a long way towards your success with women.
Unfortunately, many men fail to understand the whole concept whenever they try to act funny or interesting around women.
To make women laugh and be attracted to you at the same time, you need to understand 4 important humor codes.
CODE #1: Never be a clown
Being funny never requires you to act like a clown and a complete fool. Acting this way makes it seem like you’re really trying to make them laugh, and honestly, that doesn’t seem natural. And girls aren’t impressed by guys who pose for something they’re not.
This will demean your social status and make you look like you’re desperately begging for his approval. To add, when you act like this, women will surely laugh… Not with you, but with you. And that’s not fun.
CODE #2: Teasing her is teasing her and pleasing her
Fifth graders just don’t know how smart they are at attracting girls. If a boy likes someone at school, he might pull her hair, make some jokes, and call the girl various names.
But I won’t suggest pulling her hair (well, at least not right now), but making fun of a woman is probably the best way to practice humor. But don’t become a nuisance to her life or a stylish idiot. Rather, it’s a foolproof treatment that shows you’re not afraid to be yourself and that teasing her is one of your cool aspects.
Make taunting possible by simply:
1. Calling her a special and funny nickname
2. Imitate your tone of voice or
3. Playfully ruining things he says
4. Maybe mimic the unusual way he moves/mannerisms
Joking around with a woman is a perfect way to assert familiarity or openness. If you are already making fun of her, even if you just met the woman, you simply selected the medium that can help you break those awkward moments of meeting the other person.
CODE #3: Body Language
If you look at all the effective comedians, you’ll probably notice a common pattern. These people know how to use every part of their body to make a joke. They are capable of making funny variations of facial expressions, using things like props, gestures and movements using their hands and use whatever they have to entertain people.
However, you don’t have to be a clown to attract women. But you must remember that the language of his body greatly influences the effectiveness of his words. So while he’s teasing a woman, it’s best that he initiate body contact in a way that demonstrates a comfortable and easy interaction with her.
1. Box her playfully and lightly
2. Be silly and play sleight of hand games like ‘thumb wrestling’, ‘clapping hands’ or ‘red hands’
3. (My favorite) Pushing her aside then pulling her back into a light hug
My point here is to simply use humor to break down what we call the ‘tactile barrier’ while making you and her laugh at the same time! They both win because they are having a great time!
CODE #4: Do other cool things
The thing is, you should sprinkle in humor to add spice and flavor to your conversation. Don’t make it your main course.
Focusing only on teasing to make women laugh doesn’t show the other sides of your personality. Therefore, it is best that you get more creative and do other interesting things that help you maximize the moment, thus maintaining the attraction that you established.
So while you’re in the business of making her laugh, you might also want to:
1. Establish physical contact
2. Strengthen the report
3. Tell him your tales of adventures (don’t brag)
4. Take an interest in her life too and ask her different questions
By doing these 4 codes, you will look like a well-rounded, fun and interesting person, and definitely a great company!
In the game of seduction and attraction, humor can be your tastiest ingredient. It is an effective tool to get a girl. So make sure you understand it correctly! If you follow these 4 simple codes, you will create that fun, exciting and flirtatious vibe that will inevitably help you conquer the girl.