Happiness is difficult to achieve, it is something that we cannot buy with money nor can we borrow from someone, people live with different goals and purposes in life, but to achieve those goals we need peace of mind and happiness, it is usually difficult to understand. The reasons for consecutive failure, poor performance or loss of good people around us, if we look deeply, we will find that we lack happiness in life, which is putting a negative impression on our attitudes and performance that produces undesirable results. The following points can help you adopt habits and develop attributes to live a happy life.
1. Believe in destiny: Fate rules; we must welcome what destiny brings us. Expressions like “I will change my destiny” or “that will change your destiny” are all exaggerations that are logically denied since nothing can change our destiny. Since we are unable to see our future, so we cannot perceive what fate holds for us in the next minute, people are generally called lucky because their fates brought them much prosperity, and based on their prosperous history, people know them. as lucky. Always wish for the best and believe in your destiny, don’t blame a whole day for a small incident early in the morning that lasted a few minutes, wait and see, there are still many good things waiting your way.
2. Stay in the present: Fear of the future can eradicate your happy present moments, and the past that is long gone can have negative effects on your present. Furnish your present by getting involved in the best things to do, remove any worrying memories as those are the ones that can definitely revert your mind to failed situations, the future is yet to come so let it come and hope that it will come along with a lot of happiness and success.
3. Help others: There is no religion that prohibits helping others and according to research and studies, people with a helpful attitude are more likely to be happier than those who are less helpful. Helping others results in mutual satisfaction, a feeling of relaxation and comfort is formed when we see someone happy after receiving help. Whether big or small, help is always greatly appreciated.
4. Stay alone for a while every day: A busy day with people around, communicating with different groups, answering phone calls, chatting with friends, etc., will keep our brain so charged that we won’t even notice how tired our brain is. in those activities. Just as we need to rest physically, we also need to rest mentally. Find a quiet place, you can even lock your room for a few minutes and be alone, don’t think about anything, keep your eyes closed and feel that you have no responsibility at all, if not really, but that brief moment the feeling of tranquility of all aspects can generate positive results.
5. Make friends: Carefully choose your friends with whom you have frequent contact, maintaining a good friendship brings happiness, sharing happy moments with friends can double the joy for you and your friend. Between friends there is give and take, that is, if today you invite your friend to your party, the next time he will invite you, in this way the chain does not break and the lights of happiness come on.
6. Take care of your family: Family is where you are born, grow up and age. Love, intimacy, dependency, care and much more are found only when families are formed, a single man cannot experience different sides of life unless he lives in a family. We live with our parents, brothers and sisters in a family, so we are connected, to maintain this connection and live life with these elements of life that we do not find, we have to take care of them. Help them when they need it and enjoy the best and blessed moments with them, so that later you can say that life is good.
7. Choose an art: choose an art such as painting, learning to play musical instruments, photography or similar arts can keep you entertained all the time, it is fun to have or learn an art, little by little your creation will change to recreation when you have some refined results in hand, you can share them with people and enjoy your work.
8. Laugh out loud: Even if it’s a little joke, give him a big smile, researchers have found that laughter eliminates stress, reduces potential heart disease and provides joyous moments. If you know something funny or amusing, share it with others and have a laugh together, laughing with another person can maximize the fun and happiness generated by that particular situation.
9. Listen to elders/take advice: Although technology has improved a lot and young people never care what happens, but the experience can teach you much more than you try to learn, asking elders for advice on topics can give you a great idea of how to find solutions to problems, obviously when problems are solved or you have the potential to solve them you can feel satisfied. The elderly have witnessed different incidents, ups and downs of life, there is no doubt that everyone faces problems in life and also the elderly who we think may not realize what we see today, but the fact is that similar problems are everywhere around the world and most of them are solved through different suggestions from different people, the best source for those suggestions is the elders.
10. Love and worship God: God is the one who knows what to do next. The good servant under the guidance and protection of his Lord can face the challenges of life and go where he thinks he cannot. God is the best leader for us and the best provider, so if we love and worship Him, we can be blessed with wealth and joy from Him. Trusting in God alone can redeem us from sorrows and free us from any disappointment and unhappiness.