Most of the time you become a “good friend” with your ex after the break up. However, if he doesn’t even want to talk to you, it must be because you’ve done something that hurt them a lot and made them really angry. The reason could be anything but the bottom line is that he/she doesn’t want to even talk to you, let alone see your face, but you actually want him/her back in your life! Seems impossible, right? But it can be done and here are a few ways.
give space
As much as you want to meet and tell your ex that you’re sorry and how much you love them, now is the time to hit the pause button. Calling him a thousand times a day to apologize or confront him will only make things worse. Instead, give them this time to cool down. Your ex will not listen to reasons if you do not give him this time.
contact summary
Even after a while, if your ex doesn’t answer your call, send him a text. After a while, send a mail, and then send flowers. Tell your ex how sorry you are and how much you love him. But don’t sound desperate, let them know that he/she is ready to wait until he/she is ready to talk.
take help
By now, your ex will probably be a little less mad at you. Enlist the help of your friends or family to arrange an “accidental” meeting at a restaurant, pub, or even a bookstore. Just casually bump into him/her. Have a normal conversation. Basically, this will make your ex think about you a lot more.
act charming
Try to rekindle the romance. Behave like you did when you first fell in love. Dedicate messages to him, send him flowers that he likes, make him a CD with his favorite songs… be charming. Surely, the next time you call, your call will be answered.