One of the biggest cons of self-deception is when kids say to themselves, “I don’t know what to say.”
This makes them think that all they need to do is study more, learn more, spend more time on the Internet and finally they will be able to take a step.
This is a dead end concept.
You will NEVER know EXACTLY what to do in ANY situation.
In fact, at the most basic level, EVERY SINGLE ACTION you take will involve some measure of risk.
You do not believe me?
If you are one of the few human beings who have ever lived who can avoid risk entirely, that means you can predict the future with 100% certainty.
By definition, risk is when you take action when you DON’T KNOW what is going to happen.
And if there is NO RISK, then that means you KNOW what is going to happen.
Which means you can predict the future.
Which, of course, is impossible. Sure, you can minimize risk by putting yourself in situations where you’re pretty sure you KNOW what’s going to happen.
Like staying safe at home and watching TV. Or go to the same bar you’ve always been to, sit in your safe seat in the corner and order the same food.
Sure, it’s safe. But it’s also pretty boring.
Every time you talk to someone, you expose yourself to risk and uncertainty. YOU DON’T KNOW what they are going to say, how they are going to respond to you and how they are going to behave.
Again, you can minimize your risk by only dating people you know well and feel safe with.
Again, pretty boring.
Meeting new people involves the greatest risk and uncertainty. Meeting new people (girls) who are super attractive and can spin your propellers JUST THE WAY you like is even more risky and uncertain.
But guess that?
You will NEVER be free from risk and uncertainty. The ONLY way you will EVER meet girls you like and like yourself is by taking risks and taking uncertain steps.
Which means that many times, the results will be nothing like what you expected.
Welcome to life on planet Earth!
Being comfortable taking action when you just DON’T KNOW what’s going to happen is one of the MOST CRUCIAL ingredients to having sex over and over again with beautiful girls.
No matter how many courses you buy, how many seminars you study, how many hours you spend arguing on the Internet, you can’t avoid this.
How do you feel comfortable taking action? By practicing a series of mental exercises and some very powerful (and VERY effective) hypnosis sessions, you’ll soon eliminate any anxiety and learn to ENJOY doing things when you don’t know what’s going to happen.
Which means you will become an APPROACH MACHINE. And everything that comes with it.