Most of us were not taught to be successful. They did not teach me to have faith in God, much less to believe in myself. I had to find that path on my own. I had to create a mental image of the person I wanted to become and take action every day to become him. I closed my eyes, I thought about where I would like to be in life, what I would have liked to achieve, where I would like to live, my professional office, my degrees, how I looked, my ideal weight and even what I had. It smelled like. With this visual image in mind, I entered her body. He wanted to resist because he didn’t have to fight and fight, everything seemed to flow smoothly. I forced myself to stay there until I was comfortable with the new me. It seemed so much better than going back to where I was.
You deserve a better life. People may have used you, lied to you, abused you, and betrayed you, and made you think you don’t deserve better, but you do; and deep down you know it. We all have insecurities and limiting beliefs. How we let things go, how we don’t set healthy limits, how we spend our money, how we are afraid of failure and how we are afraid of rejection, all stem from three beliefs that we have about ourselves.
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We are afraid of failure. If we try, we may fail, so don’t try to move on, living a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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We are afraid of rejection. No one will love or accept me if they really know who I am. The right people who should be in your life will love and accept you just the way you are. “Don’t let the opinions of others define who you are”!
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We feel unworthy. People in your life may have continually put you down to make themselves feel better, which is a psychological term called “leveling off.” That has nothing to do with you and it says everything about who they are. Be proud of who you are. You are loved, accepted and very worthy! You may lose some friends, but you have to surround yourself with people who are on the same mission as you, or like-minded people.
I want to remind you that it is okay to believe in your dreams, even when everyone else tells you that you have an impossible dream. Never let others, who have never achieved their dreams, stop you from achieving yours. You know what you are capable of and your abilities. Skills and networks will emerge throughout the journey. You just have to put one step ahead of the other and keep moving forward. Yes, you will fail! You will learn from your mistakes and find a better way to accomplish the task that comes your way. Do you have an impossible goal? Make a mind map. Put yourself in the center and your goal on the outside. Design each step it will take to get there and how you can get there. Find a mentor from whom you can learn the skills you need. YouTube has many tutorials for you. If you are looking for a mentor in person or online, be prepared to ask relevant questions so you don’t waste your time and make it a valuable experience for both of you. Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE, what says “I am possible”. It is only your limited perspectives, beliefs, and values that put limits on what you could achieve. Whoever made you believe that you are not good enough, that you do not deserve peace in your life, you will always be rejected and you are not lovable, was only projecting their fears and insecurities on you. Get rid of it !! Look in the mirror every day and say to yourself: “I love you”, “I am magnificent and worthy of receiving all the good things in my life.” “I will take 5 actions every day to make that happen, and I will record them”, “They support me and respect me.” I’ll even go a step further and tell you to stand naked, in all your beautiful glory, flaws and all, and tell yourself, “I love flaws in myself that are hard to love.” It is time to truly learn to love the valuable person that you are. Stop giving others so much power to dictate your life and tell them what image you need to have before they will consider you acceptable to society. Get up and take back your power! Soon, your mind will start to attract all the things you have written. Don’t sabotage it because it’s out of your comfort zone. Embrace your new you and your new life, because you deserve so much more. You can do it. I believe in you. Now get going, what are you sitting there for?
The truth is that nothing you do defines you as a person. You, that small part of the universal energy flow, are enough, just as you are. In fact, you are essential for the proper functioning of that massive cosmos as a whole. So don’t worry when things don’t turn out the way you thought. Just keep moving forward, which will be further than most have tried.