Have a greater fear when it comes to commitment? Do you avoid compromise when it comes to being with one person for a long period of time? Do you want to give a 100% commitment relationship? Well, there is hope that you can overcome that.
This is not easy for some people to do. This is probably due to a bad and painful relationship in the past with a former boyfriend or girlfriend. Or maybe because you had to watch your parents go through a bad divorce that made you fear the commitment.
Whatever the reason in your circumstance, you will have to decide to change and learn to put your fears aside in order to maintain a loving and lasting relationship. Although you can see a therapist or doctor and solve your problems if they are very deep, there are some very simple ways to start working on your commitment problems. In fact, you can get started right now by reviewing and trying these tips:
1. Come face to face with what you have to face, who thinks that no one person will be able to meet all the needs you have in your life. For starters, this line of thinking is unhealthy, not including that you hope other people will make you happy.
You are the only person who can make you happy, that is the only person who can. Waiting for someone else to do it will only turn people away from you and fill your head with fear of commitment. Nobody is perfect.
2. Control your wandering eyes! If you really want to maintain that loving relationship that you are in, then you have to control when it comes to seeing other men or women.
You may think this is just a physical act, but for those who have issues that are bad with commitment, it is also a mental thing. You think you are only congratulating someone who is handsome or handsome, but to another degree you are also looking for “a better situation” or “a way out” of your current relationship.
3. If you have a fight between your girlfriend or boyfriend, watch to see what you are arguing about. People who have these kinds of problems when committing themselves to a relationship feel anger towards their partner.
They have these bad feelings due to their own lack of control when it comes to committing and they tend to take it out on the other person. When you get angry, then be honest with yourself and why you are angry in the first place, and then change it!