Most men probably now know that women can have several different types of orgasms!
Experienced men will know that the most satisfying orgasm a woman can have is achieved through the G-spot. Now don’t let people tell you otherwise, the G-spot exists and I’m going to tell you how to make your woman the most happy on this planet by showing you how to find her and then how to please her. Here is the summary.
First of all, the G-spot isn’t an actual place, it’s more of a small area, located about 2 inches inside the vagina at the top. (In the lower part of his stomach.)
Sometimes it is difficult to find or locate. You should know when you’ve found it because it feels like a ridged bump, a bit like the roof of your mouth, just behind your front teeth.
Now that you’ve found the G-spot, the next question is how should you stimulate it?
I’m going to say something here that took me a long time to appreciate. We men love to satisfy our ladies with intercourse, but guess what, it’s not always the best way and I’ll tell you why.
When we talk about satisfying our partner, there are a large number of variables to take into account: for starters, there is the position, the level of arousal of your partner, the size of your penis and the shape and size of the vagina are also part of the largest photograph. Bottom line: using your fingers is the easiest way to help your partner reach orgasm with the best chance of success.
But before you start stimulating the G-spot, there’s a little preparation you need to go through.
In most cases, women need to have their clitoris stimulated before stimulating the G-spot. In a sense, this presents its own problem, as once fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for touch. direct, the best way to avoid this is the most direct: ask your partner, as in all things related to making love, listen to what your partner is saying whether verbally or otherwise.
If you don’t stimulate the clitoris, there’s a good chance your G-spot will feel dry and uncomfortable. Once the clitoris is stimulated enough, it’s at the G-spot!
Let’s talk about the best positions to stimulate the G-spot
To really stimulate the G-spot, you’ll need to get into a position that gives you great easy access, and then it’s time to work your magic. These are the two positions I use most often:
1) My partner lies on his back while I lie next to him, using my stronger arm. I’m left handed so for me it’s my left arm.
2) She often sits like a puppy, while I sit and do the magic from behind.
To really set the room on fire, try switching from one position to another over the course of your foreplay.
Now let’s talk technique.
The motion you want to use is to use your finger nice and smooth as if you are calling someone to “come here.” Remember, though, that the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means that in most cases, you’ll be stroking it a little harder than the clitoris. Like pleasure guys, there is no right or wrong, just start by massaging him lightly and work your way up to a point that she finds incredibly satisfying.
How to know if she is enjoying it
First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for each woman, so you will have to experiment! Take it easy and don’t be afraid – try this tip, alternate between two very light strokes or smudges and that should help you find what she likes best. You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she holds you tight. We haven’t experienced total satisfaction yet, there is a way to make this experience even MORE enjoyable.
How to make orgasm more powerful
Prolonged foreplay will intensify orgasms for sure! However, as I noted earlier, men often get so focused on “performing” that we forget to spice up our sexual relationships with new and exciting things. Let’s be honest; most of us are guilty of this. You take off your clothes. You leave, and you go in and out in a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over, you turn over and go to sleep. Sounds familiar?
Is it any wonder that the magic starts to fade, there’s only one partner getting any kind of satisfaction and when you know what’s really on offer, even that is very limited. Is it any wonder that it gets harder and harder to make a woman orgasm? Perhaps they enjoy the variety in their sexual experience more than us men. The best way to please women in the long run is to have an entire “idea bag” ready to pull out whenever the need arises. I cannot stress the need to keep your lovemaking fresh and exciting in every way. That is the secret to making love successfully.