A man suddenly telling a woman he’s going to break up with her is one of the worst dating scenarios. The woman has every right to cry and lock herself in her room during this time. But more than getting depressed and doing nothing, there are more fruitful ways a girl can do to get her man to stay.
Look back and remember the things you said you hated…
…and strive to change them all. It takes a lot for a man to open up and say these things to you. Most of them would just keep quiet about this and walk away. If he was honest enough to mention what you need to improve on, then you should pay attention.
To be there even when he says he’s leaving.
Leave him alone when he asks to be left alone, but let him feel like you’re still around if he ever needs you. Let your man feel like you’re not about to go anywhere yet, but don’t give him the impression that you’re desperate either.
I let it go.
Holding on to your man will only make the situation worse. If he asks for some alone time or just to go to his friends house, then let him go. Sometimes men just need a little breathing space to deal with stress in a relationship. Once he feels that you are mature enough to let him go, he will definitely think ten times before letting you go.
Never take it for granted, again.
If he says he’s willing to give your relationship another chance, then you want to make sure you take care of him this time. Give him the things he truly deserves, like fiery passion, love, and most of all, respect.
Don’t worry about so many things.
Women have a tendency to become whiners and moaners. They tend to make mountains out of the little mounds of sand in their lives. If you want a man to stay with you, then this is not the way you should handle things. Have a little more patience and that will go a long way.
Don’t ask him to change.
A man will never want to be told what to do. So if you want your relationship to improve and if you want him to be by your side all the time, then make sure you let him be himself. Never change him to your idea of an ideal man.
Be your own version of a sex goddess.
Men love to have sex, so you need to capitalize on this truth to keep them. You can be a seductress when you’re in bed with him, don’t be afraid to explore. Let their fantasies come true in you.