In many master bedrooms across the country, there is a lot going on that gets in the way of your romance.
These are just a few.
1. It’s where you fold your clothes.
2. It is where children and/or pets sleep.
3. It’s where your computer is.
4. It’s where you pay the bills.
5. It’s where you keep the ironing board.
6. It’s where you watch TV.
7. It’s where you fight with your partner.
And all of these things get in the way of a quality relationship.
But it is possible to retrain and improve.
All that is needed is to get rid of all distractions.
Turn your bedroom into a romantic spa that calms you down and helps you get in the mood to be together.
It is important to have a serene and luxurious bedroom. It has a direct effect on whether you get good quality sleep. And most of us, children included, are seriously sleep deprived.
Part of this is having the best bedding. It’s also important to have soft, soothing colors and soothing scents.
But the constant buzzing of electronics will get in the way of both good quality sleep and good quality love.
So banish distractions. Put the TV and computer somewhere else, organize bills in a good storage place with office space away from your sanctuary. Put children and pets to bed early in their own rooms and start paying attention to your relationship.
We have nothing in our bedroom except a bed and 2 side tables with lamps. The main colors are whitewashed cedar, green slate floors covered with a light-colored wool rug, and sedate art.
That’s it. We don’t even have dressers or dressers. All the clothes are in the closets. I have a makeup table in a dresser next to the bathroom. My sister’s is in her dressing room.
My ironing board is in the laundry room. Our computers are in an office along with all bill payment and other paperwork, set up in what many people use as a living room. Formal dining rooms also make good offices. An additional bedroom can also work. Our TV is in our family room.
Pets and children have their own sleeping spaces.
We all go to our rooms early, usually at 9 pm, although if your children are young, they should go to bed earlier.
In addition to restoring the romance in your relationship, all of you will be more rested and ready for the next day.
But the biggest advantage is that they have nothing else to distract them from each other.
Thanks to it, you can reconnect both emotionally and physically.
Viola! Romance Lives!