Many people really want to improve their love life, and in fact, we all should.
There are particular things that I have observed in my study of relationships that affect people in general. One of them is words.
Many women relate to words more than men. Words could make a lady lose control. The word is the vehicle to transmit love. In this article, I am focusing on men.
Communication in love relationships is a primary issue. Many things, including money and material things, are secondary. It is vital to the establishment, growth, and maintenance of all successful relationships. Every person in love must develop their communication skills.
Many men do not understand this and have had to fight despite all their efforts to have a happy relationship. Many other men have lost their spouses because they are poor in speech.
You must not only pronounce the words, they must be good words. They must come at the appropriate times and seasons.
Words paint love. It must be mastered and put to use.
Most ladies want your compliment when they do their hair.
Most ladies want their dresses to be appreciated.
Ladies want their beauty to be praised.
During intercourse, your wife wants to hear that you appreciate her.
A lady wants you to love and say good words about her children.
Women want words of encouragement when they talk about challenges at work.
The list goes on.
Other things to talk about:
1. Greeting. the friendly greeting is very vital at all times
2.Chat. Chatting with each other in very friendly ways; talk about things that are light, fun and funny.
3. Share the experience, anxieties and concerns of others.
4. Appreciate each other, appreciate your wife, use lovely adjectives.
5. Talk about vacations; where to go and what to do.
6. Talk about things to buy, where to buy them, and costs.
serious conversation
-Take the time to discuss the actions you want to take before taking them
-Discuss the observed differences and how to manage them, the necessary adjustment and possibly the effects they have on you.
-Talk about the extended family in good faith.
sexual matters
– Sexual desires should be discussed, in a very friendly way and if there are concerns talk about them. This is vital and there is nothing to be shy or embarrassed about. Talk about your fantasies and the things you want to spice up in your sexual experiences.
– Family planning should be discussed without stress.
Health matters
– Any health issues should be discussed
– talk about exercises.
Keep communication flowing.
It is important to have a constant flow of communication. Do not create gaps at any time.
Telephone conversation: while you are away from each other is very important.
Communication breakdown.
When there is any cause for the interruption of communication, efforts should be made to restore it as quickly as possible.
how to communicate
1. Respectfully.
2. With humour.
3. Sincerely.
4. Clearly.
5. With all tenderness.
6. In private about serious matters.
7. Never abusive.
8. Never demeaning.
9. Never fight in front of children.
10. Do not argue openly or for a long time.
11. Nothing selfish, never dominate a conversation.
12. Never over admire a person of the opposite sex, to the detriment of your home.
13. Pay the due compliment always.
14. Never overexpress your anger, we all make mistakes at one time or another.
15. Express dissatisfaction with love.
16. Never yell at each other.
Your love life is important and you are the best person to improve it. You have the right to enjoy it. It is important that you strive to build your life of word; this will improve everything around you. You love life is painted with your words