They say that one way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Rather, the path to a woman’s heart and bed runs through her head. Unlike men, who are highly visually stimulated animals, women, on the other hand, are stimulated by your words and your ability to make them feel good.
Have you ever wondered why you see the most beautiful women (9 and 10) with the most plump and unattractive men on the planet? I bet you think it’s because they have money, or maybe you think they’re just his uncle or something. The truth is, these men have learned to enter a woman’s mind at levels you can’t even imagine.
I myself am not the most handsome man, nor the richest man, or the best dressed man in my own city, much less in the world, but in recent years, I have begun to master the art of getting into a woman’s clothes . head. Your psyche.
The only women I’m attracted to now are 9’s and 10’s because I’ve learned a lot about the way these types of women think and react to situations that the average person hasn’t taken the time or had the guts to explore. .
Most men are what we call pick-up artists, the beta male. These are men who spend all of their time, money, and energy trying to please women. They constantly compliment the woman, open doors, pull out chairs, laugh at their silly jokes, and do just about anything to try to impress them. These are insecure men who believe they must tend to a woman in order to return any affection, but the only thing they get in return is to be put on the ‘friend list’ of all the women they chase. These men are what we call good guys and we all know that good guys finish last, if they finish.
Question? What is the best thing you want to say to a woman who is beautiful? I bet you all said betas, ‘tell her she’s pretty.’ INCORRECT!
The other, rarer class of men, whom we call Alphas, will tell you to say, “You have good shoes, but your feet are too big.” Sober compliments work perfectly. You congratulate but insult at the same time, thus neutralizing the effect. Then say something like, “I can’t date a fancy girl who can wear my Nike shoes.” If your answer is something like “who says we’re dating anyway?”, You’re there.
Think about this. A pretty girl who knows she is pretty has lived her entire life and been told how beautiful she is. Men have tried to indulge her every whim in an attempt to woo her and make her their own. So as a potential new partner, you must find a way to stand out from the crowd of thousands of other men who have already tried to spoil her but to no avail, which is why she is still single.
When he hears “you’re pretty,” he might politely say thank you, but you immediately jumped headfirst into the pile of other guys who think she’s pretty. What a thing. Nothing else to talk about.
Now if you tell her that she has big feet, that she has diaper hair, or that her dress is too short, then you have done something that most men are afraid to do, tell the truth and that, in Ultimately, it will draw her to you. .
Beautiful women are used to being looked at and admired. My advice, look at it and then ignore it. He’ll wonder why the hell you’re not as mesmerized by his butt, I mean, his beauty like any other man. This type of reverse psychology will intrigue you on many levels. She would be attracted to you if it weren’t for more than to know what your deal is because you are DIFFERENT regardless of what you look like (refrain from looking like a bum though).
In the world of hot chics, what they say they want is often the opposite of what they really want. ‘I want a good boy.’ Bull !, will run you over and treat you badly or worse, like a ‘friend’. Good guys lack the control and confidence that a sexy girl would want in a partner.
Whether you want to admit it or not, you want a real MAN, an ALPHA MAN.
A man who does little to try to please. A man who ‘she’ is constantly trying to please because he never knows what it is you want. A man that “she” never seems to satisfy. Not being able to please you will keep her trying. A man who does not give in to tell you what you “want” to hear, but who will always tell you what you “need” to hear. A man she can follow anywhere. A man they can trust to be honest with them. The kind of man who deserves your affections. An alpha male. Not some idiot who does and says everything they think she wants.
Nice guys don’t get into many beds because they have yet to figure out how to get inside a woman’s head first.