If you’re the kind of person who likes to take control of their lives, learning how to hypnotize someone without them knowing could really help you get what you want. It’s about making the most of life, getting the partner we want, the lifestyle we deserve, making the most of all our opportunities, not only for ourselves but also for our families.
Many of you are probably thinking that it’s all very well, but is hypnotizing someone a reality or just a comic book fantasy?
Let’s clear something up right away. Hypnosis is a clinically proven methodology used by thousands of qualified professionals around the world. It is used for everything from helping people beat drug addiction to making operations possible without the need for anesthesia. Don’t flatter yourself, hypnosis is a really powerful technique.
However, you can’t just stand in front of someone who says “look into my eyes, you’re sleepy”, well you could, but they will almost certainly look at you like you’re an idiot. Fortunately, at the same time, learning how to hypnotize someone without them knowing is not rocket science either.
I’ll tell you a little secret. In fact, we all experience a hypnotic trance almost every day, it’s just that we don’t know about it and we don’t know how to use it on others. more of that later
So let’s say you see the girl of your dreams or you’re about to walk into the most important business meeting of your life. How awesome would it be if you could walk up to that beautiful girl or walk into that meeting knowing you are in control, able to make them think what you say without them knowing?
Now, if you’re in a bar or on an interview and you can’t expect to get away with dangling a clock in front of someone’s face or asking them to think of a cute childhood memory, they’ll definitely notice and probably think you’re a bit rare. You need a technique that is much more subtle than that, but powerful enough to allow you to control your thoughts.
Conversational hypnosis is the hypnotic method you need if you really want to know how to hypnotize someone without them knowing. It’s like any other skill. You need to know what you are doing and practice regularly to master your technique. Fortunately, there are great courses out there that can help you do just that.
However, there are also some basic principles that will not only help you make the most of any situation, but will also underpin much of conversational hypnosis.
1. Listen and observe.
Listen, I mean really listen. Don’t let what they’re saying cross your mind somewhere while you’re thinking of what to say. Gather the information they are revealing. Remember that it’s not just their verbal communication that tells you about them, it’s their mannerisms and body language, their eye contact or lack thereof. A good conversational hypnotist will be able to read these signals like a book that tells them exactly what they want to know. But, with a little practice, you’ll be amazed at how much you can naturally learn about a person just by listening and watching closely what the other person is saying.
2. Create a report.
As you listen, you don’t need to just be passive. You can use what you hear and all of your observations to start building a relationship with the person. In short, they will be much more likely to do what you ask if they like you. Once again, conversational hypnosis teaches you how to use techniques like “mirroring” and “empathetic response” to build this relationship incredibly quickly and effectively. However, even on a very basic level, if you show someone that you have heard them simply by repeating part of what they said or saying that you understand how they feel, they will think better of you.
3. Put them in a trance.
What? I was being perfectly sensible and now you’re probably thinking I’m two cans short of a six pack and I’m going to start rambling about shaking clocks or shooting memory beams out of my eyes. Do not worry, nothing is further from reality.
Trance is a state of mind that we enter every day. All it means is that our conscious mind is completely involved in the present, leaving our subconscious mind unprotected. Have you ever been so focused on something that someone can stand next to you and say something to you and you literally don’t hear them? It’s that weird feeling when you’re vaguely aware that someone is there and talking, but you’re so busy with what you’re doing, whatever it is, that you don’t or can’t respond.
Guess what you are in a trance. Have you ever been reading something and then had to apologize to someone because you didn’t respond when they spoke to you? You guessed it, you are in a trance. In fact, a trance state is something we go in and out of many times a day. The conversational hypnotist not only knows this but is able to cause it to be ‘induced’ in others. There are many different ways to do this type of “induction,” but you can start doing it simply by mirroring a person’s conversation when you talk to them.
Use your vocabulary and scatter some of your own phrases in your answers. Your goal is not to copy them obviously, but to show them that you’ve really been listening to them. Get this right and they won’t even realize what you’re doing, but subconsciously they’ll rate you very highly as a person who shares their beliefs and experiences. You will draw their attention to your conversation. Just like when they are reading a good book, their conscious mind will be fully focused on your every word. They will be in a trance.
4. Make the suggestions you want them to believe.
With a working knowledge of conversational hypnosis, you’ll be able to easily tell when they’re in a trance, test their subconscious response, and “calibrate” your conversation to get them exactly where you want them. However, even if you’re not an expert, if someone seems completely focused on you and what you’re saying, you’ll have a good chance of making your suggestions stick. Again, there are many tricks and phrases you can use to ensure success, but generally speaking, if you make creative and positive suggestions, they have a good chance of having a big effect on the person you’re talking to.
Starting your suggestion sentence with something like “imagine how brilliant that would be…” or “wouldn’t it be great if…” This will give you a better chance of success. So if the girl seems transfixed by what you say, suggesting “wouldn’t it be great if meeting someone like that was the start of something amazing?” could be good for you. Similarly, at that business meeting you could say something like “wouldn’t you love it if you doubled your profits from my product in less than a year?”
However, the real beauty of conversational hypnosis is that, if done right, the suggestions you make are for the person’s subconscious. They inadvertently absorb them and thus adopt their suggestions as their own thoughts.